Stop the violence now!!!

The rate at which violence amongst couples booms t

oday is really alarming. It makes me begin to wonder if the love was never present to begin with.
I am not taking it from the female or male angle,I just want to be blunt about the whole thing.
Why do we have to go through pain in a relationship that is meant to give us joy and the happiness we envisaged when saying the " I do"? Or has the love hit the rock already?
It's high time we go back to the drawing board to really figure out where it went wrong.
Woman! Yes you! You don't want a rival yet you don't want to progress , men are humans too! Don't take him for granted all because he loves you! If you chase him out, to get him will be by the grace of God. So please lower your gaze and soft pedal a little for the sake of the kids at least.
Super woman, any little fight or disagreement you pick a knife or bottle,once you stab and he dies what will you tell your kids and grandchildren that's if you will see them with all these!
There is no saint out there so remember a stitch in time saves nine!
Oga of the house, its your turn, yes you provide for your family and give your wife attention in bed, did you really satisfy her? When last did you encourage her on what she's doing or even show concern about her and her passion?
You knew her flaws when you married her, so you don't expect a super woman after all she married you with yours too!
Why torture her emotionally, why make her feel like a failure?
She's not your punching bag for training now why beat her up for her wrong doing?
Remember at least what you shared before now if truly you value her as a wife and mother of your kids.
If you think you pissed at the way she does some chores or cooking that you don't like, she isn't a professional, put her through and do the cooking together if you have the time, it doesn't make you less as a man.
Remember she isn't a slave but your better half!
Daddy, yes you that left mummy at home and yet you pursue Shade, what do you want from shade that mummy can't give you?
Mummy Bola! Its your turn o! There is no magic anywhere o, the baba OLOWO you are following started rough too! Support your man so you can have a say when the pasture gets greener, remember o tomorrow is unknown!
I beseech every married and single reading this piece to please for the sake of the Almighty Allah/God which ever way you see it, retrace your steps and look out to each other!
You can make the best of out of the worst scenario. Please let's get it right for the sake of our kids and for their tomorrow when we will be absent. They are watching and observing every little thing that happens between you parents.
I wish you all the best as we work towards a better and happy home!
# say No to Violence against men/women today!